My Frustation

Here i am again with a new random topic and a bit personal but interesting topic. FRUSTRATION

Have you ever got frustrated? Or have you ever been in a situation when something has just gone opposite of what you thought? I bet, surely every one of us has gone through this kind of situation somewhere and somehow. It may arise from a small argument with your peers or parents or it may arise due to something that you didn’t like. There can be hundreds of reason for that. Sometimes people go violent, but they need to overcome it before it severely affects them.

Even I get frustrated lot of times. Reasons? There are many. Getting bore in the hostel and nowhere to go, a nightmare, parents not understanding our feelings, loads and loads of assignments, solving personal problems, exams, people gossiping about me, getting calls late night for some stupid reasons and work, answering meaningless questions and the list never ends. Even before writing this blog I was very much frustrated because I was not able to decide any topic to write. But it did help me in some way. It gave me a topic to write upon.

But the most interesting thing is what we do when we are in such a situation.  Some react very immaturely to situations and some try to handle it like adults. Sometimes it is funny and sometimes it can be dangerous if it crosses the limit. I behave very immaturely. And would you like to know that what do I do? They are some of the activities one can very well imagine. What do you think I can do? Think for a while. Well yes, you are pretty much right and close. At this point of time there may be many ideas popping into your mind but what I do is yell at the person in front of me (and every time, Parul, my roommate, is my target but now she is used to it and never complains), watch or listen to something that always makes me happy, or makes me laugh, listen to music, and play online games on the computer, take deep-deep breaths, scream while your face is in a pillow, punch the pillow, chuck the pillow at someone, jump on a pillow (you'll be surprised how many things you can do with a pillow), eat, clean my room, curl into my bed, go out for a walk or sometimes I simply call my guy and talk to him. It is my best method to get my frustration down (hats off to him that he handles me very patiently) and the way he puts everything in an optimistic manner saying that, “Whatever happens is for a reason, a good reason.”

There are many other reasons on which we get frustrated and many other reactions to them. Well, some point of time in your life even you were frustrated. Would you like to share the reason and what you did to calm it down?

The Parallel World

A walk through a dark alley and the feeling of being closely watched and followed.Alone in the room, studying around midnight sitting at your old wooden chair , hands on the table , eyes in the book and mind deeply involved with the matter suddenly one moment of cold air blowing by the ear and the sensation of someone standing right behind you brings sweat and goosebumps.

Have you ever felt these strange sensations???

Lot amongst us might get goosebumps by just hearing the word spirit or ghosts. Everyone of us at least once in our lifetime listen stories of spirits , ghosts etc etc. The story ends and leave some of the listeners with goosebumps and a scary feeling.

What happens after death?? Is there really a spirit inside every human being? do after death the spirit if its there goes through the "shinning bridge" and enters another world.. "the spirit world"?? Some of the biggest unsolved question mythological , religiously and scientifically . These question have remained unanswered from decades and decades but no one have really denied to believe in the existence of the parallel world, let it be religious leaders or let it be scientist -two most opposite yet powerful base of the human race.

A patient brought in emergency to hospital is being transferred to the operation chamber for an instant operation. Doctors try their best but loose the patient in middle of the operation, heart beat stopped , no breath, absolutely nothing and doctors declare , "patient is dead" . Just after about he breaths a heavy breath, heart beat starts and he is miraculously back to life. There have been numerous cases like this and one thing common in all these cases were when the patient was asked , "what did you felt or saw?" , the answer have been the same always. Every one have told stories about a "flash of white light , a shinning bridge and walk on that bridge to go to other side when suddenly everything disappeared".

Do this small journey of a dying patient not signifies the exists of a parallel world scientifically, a world where spirit exists.!!

A horrible road accident on a deserted road, the whole family of four , a male , one female and two kids dies on the spot. What commonly is noticed by people passing by the same spot where these kind of accident happens are sights of a lady walking in middle of the road and suddenly disappearing, kids lying on the road and many other scary scene which vanishes with a wink of an eye but felt truly real.

Do these sights reported by the people driving by not signifies the existence of a parallel world religious because every religion say or believes that people who die fatal death , their spirits never leave the material world.

So many incidents where people have reported some unusual which just vanished with a wink, something scary, haunted houses, dogs suddenly barking in the middle of the night by sensing something unusual , things moving in the air by themselves and many more.

I believe their is a life after death, the spirit life in a different world because believe it or not everyone of us at least once in his or her lifetime feels the existence of a different world, most of us name it sighting a ghost and rest of us bury it inside their heart because they are SCARED.

So next time you get goosebumps in a quiet lonely dark night , remember their is someone definitely watching.

Random Places Random thoughts

What is a Thought..?? Whenever i think of this or ask this question from anyone around, can u guess whats their initial reaction is..?? If you guessed it then you are right it's a "thought" itself and if you didn't guessed it then you must be having lot of "thoughts" by now. Find it crazy or bizarre but this is a common yet a strange phenomena. I have done my share of fare thinking on this and reached exactly from where i started. If anyone of you reading this want to think about it then you are more than welcome.

Everyday i get up in the morning, put my slippers on and head out of my tiny hostel room towards my 5 by 20 balcony to enjoy the beautiful warm morning sun. Same place, same sun same me but what is different each and every time is thoughts going on my head. If it's a Sunday morning then happy thoughts, if it's a morning followed by an exam then weird thoughts . This morning i woke up and did the same and while standing at my balcony i was thinking "i should run away and have vacation on my own, is there hot water left in the washroom, what if i sleep 5 min more, hope there is something good in breakfast!! So less time and so many thought. It's like mind never wants to stop , as if it was not even made by the almighty to stop, guess that why even while sleeping when the whole body rests itself mind is still thinking or as the world say it , we are "dreaming".

I follow the same way to college everyday. Again its same me, same way but different thoughts. Today was different as usual ( strange sentence by very true in a sense) . I was thinking " how will be the sitting arrangement for today's exam will be, will i be able to cheat, as soon as I'll finish up damn sure I'm running away for having some good food..!! I guess our life is very simple in a way what make each one of us life unique in itself is the way we think, making it more simple i can say mind controlls the way of living of each one of us. This might sound very weird but again true in a strange sense.

"Anywhere you go , any time you go your random thoughts are always with you and in fact ahead of you."

There ended my exam today and just like a wink of eye went the whole evening talking about it, no let me correct myself thinking about it whole evening. Then came the night with new thoughts , while having dinner and watching a random song on the Internet i was thinking "woo the food is good today, how can this guy dance like this in the video , what will be my boyfriend doing right now, London is an amazing place i should go there once".

Came the end of today's night and i started to think what to write on my blog today, thoughts thoughts and more thoughts so here i was simple writing about them.

"Funny but practical, weird but simple, strange yet common.. your thought rule the way you live".

Do give some thought to it. If you reading it till here then you might be scrathing your head by now but that's fine with me. I love doing this to people.